The day after Delores' son Ryan passed away, she received his left kidney. Delores now shares her story with the hopes of helping donor families heal and helping others understand the importance of transplantation. She is interested in using her law degree to start a program offering free legal assistance to transplant recipients and their families.

Dolores's Story

Delores Benton Evans both gave and received life from her son Ryan. On November 18, 2008, Ryan died; the next day, Delores received his left kidney. This was the first occurrence in which a patient received a kidney from a deceased child at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill.

“It is amazing that in life, he could not donate a kidney to me, but after his death it was possible,” said 62-year old Delores. “Prior to my transplant, I tried peritoneal dialysis because of the flexibility so that I could continue to practice law. Because of a hole in my diaphragm, the dialysis fluid would not remain in the abdominal area and it was discontinued. Then I began nocturnal hemodialysis – eight-hour treatments, three times a week.

“Sometimes I was emaciated, had congestive heart failure and hypertension. Type 2 diabetes exacerbated the renal disease. But I was able to have three lovely children and receive two graduate degrees in social work and law before end-stage renal disease changed by life. Eventually, I was forced to stop working and qualified for social security disability.”

Delores had vowed that, if she were fortunate enough to receive a kidney transplant, she would become an avid volunteer working to increase organ, tissue and bone donations and be an advocate for people receiving dialysis. “Until you have a personal or visual experience with people who are on dialysis, it is difficult to comprehend the issues,” she said.

“Now, I travel, garden and care for my grandchildren, and I want to work part-time. I tell my story at events to educate, honor and increase donations. I received my first standing ovation after telling my story in church, where I was invited to talk. At the National Donor Recognition Ceremony, I met people, shared my story and learned more in two days at workshops and sessions than I had learned in eight months,” Delores said.

She went on to say, “Many people have told me that they have learned a lot about transplantation because of our story, Ryan and me. Our story generated publicity about organ, tissue and bone transplantation. My pastor said that he decided to become an organ donor and changed his driver’s license because of me.

“My family and I are committed to working to educate, inform and discuss our story so that many others can be helped. Each time that I attend an event, I heal a little more by connecting with other donor and recipient families. Hearing their stories and sharing information in seminars and sessions helps us heal, learn and educate.”

In addition to her volunteer work, Delores is currently developing a program that will enable donor families and transplant recipients to have access to free legal consultation.